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  1. Karin Smith from PASAC
    Posted June 9, 2011 at 6:44 pm | Permalink

    Hello fellow partners,

    Feel free to post a comment in our guestboook. If you are seeking support to understand the survivor in your life, please use the form on the contact page to get in touch.

    We look forward to hearing from you!

  2. charles j.
    Posted July 13, 2011 at 5:21 pm | Permalink

    Hi. Im a 54 year old, sexually and physycally abused by authority figures as well as people I trusted. Mental abuse (name calling, laughter, pointing out worthlessness), Have followed me all my life. Somee temporary relief is found in fanatical religeous
    participation, but when I am alone I suffer. I have learned to live with this, went to therapy for 7 years, thought i had it liked, but lonliness and guilt still prevail. I could be of some help to thers but I also need help myself.

  3. Toby
    Posted August 24, 2011 at 6:03 pm | Permalink

    I have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2, he told me early on that he was sexually abused. I listened and didn’t push the issue any further. He assured me that he had dealt with it. I did a lot of research to try to educate myself. But nothing prepared me for finding a naked picture of him that he posted to a male website. He is not gay, but has this “addiction” to attention. He vows he loves me but doens’t know if he can be with me while he recovers. He also doesn’t know if he wants to recover.

    He went to a sex addiction clinic over 10 years ago and while seeking help, he and the therapist slept together.

    Outside of this, our lives were perfect, healthy, pleasant, no fighting, no unkind words, lots of laughing and lots of love…and then I found this picture that he sent and confronted him.

    I need therapy as much as he does now. I feel as though I have lots my best friend and I truly don’t know what to do.

    I wish I could speak to someone who was in my shoes…I am sure there are people out there that have experienced the same thing as me.

  4. "P"
    Posted October 6, 2011 at 1:04 am | Permalink

    i was sexualy abused as a child and at 40 sumthing years old is the first time tonight i mentioned it to my mother, i felt sum kinda of release but know in my heart i have a lot more healing and getting over it, tonight as old as i am i took the first step to trying to recover from a tragic past that i have blocked out of my head for so many years and ashamed as it was my fault what happen to me, but i know it is not. Even all the counslers ive seen and physciatrist ive seen ive never revealed this moment, why i dont know…..hope for a brighter future and can get away from my past that i just let out tonight

  5. Posted October 6, 2011 at 5:37 am | Permalink

    Hi “P”

    I will respond tonight. No you were never responsible for the abuse only the perpetrator was guilty. YOu were just a sweet innocent child.

    You hang in there, we will help you work through this

    Karin

  6. Wendy G.
    Posted April 26, 2012 at 3:58 pm | Permalink

    I was so happy to find this website in the book “Victims No Longer”. I am really hoping it will give me a chance to talk with other people who are going through what I am. Thank you!

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